Friday, February 10, 2012

Would you forgive a guy like that?

I have a boyfriend we been together for 6 months , yesterday i just found out he been to a massage place (whore house) AND HE HAD SEX with the girl that gave him the (massage) i found him on google latitude.He said it was true and he was very very sorry about it , and he asked for forgiveness i love him a lot but i dont know if i forgive him or not i will never trust him again i guess. please give me you opnion . what would you do ? thank you .Would you forgive a guy like that?
Nope. I would not recommend it. Trust is key to a relationship, and it sounds like this one will have none. He can't trust you because you creeped on him (which is in some cases acceptable, like when you're worried he may be doing things that can lead you to contracting AIDS, but still) and you said so yourself that you can't trust him.

And even if he is sorry, that's just unacceptable for him to be even thinking of doing that. Like, what, are you not enough?! He doesn't deserve you.

And he could have an STD now, so if you were ever planning on reaching that step or having children, you would have to worry about that, since he could simply be a carrier and never know. And STDs can KILL you.

And he could've gotten that woman pregnant. You may never know, until one day the kid shows up to reunite with their dad.

And what if he does it again? Do you want to have to worry about monitoring him constantly in case he thinks of doing it?

6 months is a serious relationship that he just threw away. But it's also short enough for you to still move on past it and find someone better. I think you should. I'm sorry this happened to you. It's absolutely awful.Would you forgive a guy like that?
You shouldn't have creeped on him, but if feel betrayed you will never get over it and might get jealous of him and chicks. It isn't worth it. I would forgive and forget. But that's just meWould you forgive a guy like that?
if you cant forgive and completly forget den theres no point staying with him. every time he goes out u will be worrying and just upset your self also you will question him and he will get angry and annoyed after time with the you keep quizzing him and checkin up on him. you only been wid him 6 months i know its hard but think its easier to leave him now den in2 years time after you gone through so much hurt and dis-trust x

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